Been gay

Gay is a term that primarily refers to a homosexual person or the trait of being homosexual. The term originally meant 'carefree', 'cheerful', or 'bright and showy'. [1] While scant usage referring to male homosexuality dates to the late 19th century, that meaning became increasingly common by the midth century. [2]. These 25 gay historical figures have made it easier for us.

For centuries, queer people have been forced to stay silent, accept crumbs, hide in the shadows, and live in fear. Homophobic laws and attitudes have stifled countless LGBTQ individuals, denying them the freedom to express their true selves. homosexuality, sexual interest in and attraction to members of one’s own sex. The term gay is frequently used as a synonym for homosexual; female homosexuality is often referred to as lesbianism.

At different times and in different cultures, homosexual behaviour has been variously approved of, tolerated, punished, and banned. People can be celibate and still know their sexual orientation—be it lesbian, gay, bisexual, or heterosexual. Different lesbian, gay, and bisexual people have very different experiences regarding their sexual orientation.

Most historians agree that there is evidence of homosexual activity and same-sex love, whether such relationships were accepted or persecuted, in every documented culture. We know that homosexuality existed in ancient Israel simply because it is prohibited in the Bible, whereas it flourished between both men and women in Ancient Greece. Scientific research has shown that sexual orientation is not something that can be changed.

Several U. There are many people you can safely talk to about your feelings and questions. People who are questioning their sexual orientation are also welcome. There are some great BC groups where you can meet supportive peers. There are also Boston area groups if you prefer something off-campus. See BC resources: bit.

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Thank you for being so supportive and for sharing your story honestly. BC is lucky you are here. I especially appreciate that you told others they are loved and important- so true! Boston College Libraries. BC Home Mission Feedback. Search the Library Submit Search. How do I stop being gay? It really sucks. Just be strong. I have been out nearly 7 years now age 16, sophomore year of HS.

I internalized everything society told me. There was a point where i was looking at the train tracks on the T ride home waiting for a train to come so I could jump Thankfully I had a change of heart and now i look back at that day. That week I told my friends and family I was gay. It is hard here. I am not going to lie to you. Just know that you are loved, you are important and it is amazing to be queer, as it is a valid identity and many people are.

If people do not accept you for who you are, then it is their loss not yours. Self love is a beautiful process, and it is ongoin. I love you. Previous Post Previous Bookworm today!